I hate the selfish people and i hate being selfish.

I hate people whom always think about themselves. Every time I meet them, they just talk about their problems. They think only they have problem and never want to think about the other problem. 

Honestly I hate while I face people that always talk about what's on their mind. It makes me feel dizzy and doesn't inspire me to do anything. I always pray for God, please make me far away from those people and don't make me like those kinds of people.

Every thing will be changed

Sometimes people are so selfish, They just think about themselves. If they  think it doesn't have an effect to them, they don't think too hard to help people who really need help. They never realize one day they will need the others' help.

Remember that, every thing will be changed. Now someone needs your help. One day, perhaps you need her/his help too. So while somebody needs you, just be there. Because the person will be there when you need him/her.

Never think that you are so powerful and you never need someone's help. Don't be proud of yourself. It will hurt you in the future. 

Medical Communication Project

I want to talk about my next research project. I don't know why I want to do this project. This project is about medical communication. Communication is simple. But if you can't do it well it will ruin your life. Perhaps this is the reason why I make this research. But never think that this project is easy. You know I am in Indonesia. Every thing is so easy but if you become closer to the object, it will make a problem. That's about Indonesian culture. So related to my medical communication project, I am so eager to make the communication around doctors and patients are easier although they are never so easy as you think.

Tinker Bell approaching to teach a lesson

Most of people know about Tinker Bell as a fairy friend of Peter Pan. She is so curious to every thing that she finds around her and is easy to help every body. One important thing (in Tinker Bell and the Great Fairy Rescue) she is so helpful to Lizzy as a new little friend, a daughter of a Doctor. Her character can be a reference for an educator as one of methodology to teach.

Reading will help you to do your best in a test

People never think that my project will help them to be familiar with doing the test. First, make you comfortable with every word, sentence until paragraph for your field. Then try to make a summary from the reading text. If you have caught the idea from the text, try to answer the question slowly but true. If you try my suggestion, soon you will be so expert in answering all questions from all tests.

Reading skill will help you to get the best achievement

Some people say that reading is an easy activity. They think it can be done while they have a leisure time. They are wrong. Reading skill is not easy and it is not an activity to kill the time. It is an important thing. You have to practice reading every day. It will help you to interpret the problem that you have read. It will help you while you have a lesson and at the end you can do the test easily.

God asked His Prophet to read the Holy Qur'aan

God asked His prophet to read the Holy Qur'aan. It meant that we should read first to know more about everything. You know how important to read and read to increase your knowledge. but how some people think that a reading activity is a boring activity and so simple so we can do this activity deeply.

Can be a nice hobby but can be a nightmare

Reading is an easy activity to do. Just take a book or magazine or newspaper that you like then open it. But if you don't do it as a habit, you will be trapped by it. It can be a nightmare while you have an English test.

Read Mind

Some people asked me why I choose to know more about mind. I like reading and one of my reading focus is mind. Mind is the same as book, full of challenge. So it is an interesting activity to read mind through scanning and skimming just like while we are reading a book.

Communicate through mind

Some people say it's good if you can communicate through your mind. But how? Just concentrate on your mind and connect to the one that you want. Then focus yourself to the person you want to communicate. After that, just concentrate and say something through your mind. Insha Allah the person you want to communicate  will read your mind and know what you need.

How to start writing a novel

Some people are confused how to start making a novel. Just simple. Find something different that you want to tell clearly. After that, find a topic that you want to make, then find the supporting ideas.Make into good composition. So your chapters are the same or stable. After that, try to choose the ending, happy ending or sad ending. Then let's start.

Still need time to improve

Yesterday (June 23.2011) was the time for level 3 of medical students to take their TOEFL test results. From 32 participants, there was only one who got the target more than 450 scores. One of them came to us (as the lecturers) and asked us,"Can we take another test outside?"  We have already known what she meant. It meant that she wanted to buy another certificate without taking test so hard again. Why should she or other students take that way while they still have time to take and study again. They need to reach the target for their graduation but they will graduate next year. They still have time. But why don't they think about study to reach the goal so they will get more, not only get better scores but they will get some knowledge. Okh, come on!

Try to concentrate on what you think will make your dream comes true

If you believe in what you will get, you will get it. But it is hard to do it. First, make your mind sure what you will reach. Then, think it so hard and pray. After that, just do it to reach it. Finally, Insha Allah, God will make it true.

My disappointed experience while I was teaching kindergarten students.

As a language worker who works in teaching and learning English language, i have so many experiences. One of them while i was teaching kindergarten students. It is not easy to make them pronounce all words correctly. But it seemed that the headmaster needs them to be perfect.

This was my case  this semester, I have given them three songs to be sung. But while there was an evaluation from the headmaster, she asked and judged the students that they couldn't study more songs. Just one but so focus. Without any permission from me, they cut my teaching lesson about songs. How upset and disappointed I was! We can't judge these children, and it's better to give them chance to study more and present their ability in front of public.

The old friends are always the best than your new friends

Sometimes when we have a problem with our closed friends, we try to find or run away from them. Then we try to find a new place while we can put and share our hearts so peaceful. You never realize that is a big mistake because we never know what kind of people that we find in a new place. In an old place, you have  communicated and interacted each other and have known deep in your heart and their heart, but we never know about the new ones. Never put your ego in your heart. Communication is the best. While you have made a good communication with your old friends, it will be safe for  your life better than the new ones that you never have a good communication before.

How to express your lefty feeling

God creates his creatures in His way. We never know that for every one that has different style. In this case, as a lefty person, I have found so many barriers that ordinary people think it's my weakness. They never realize that as a lefty, i have so many different ways in my day lifetime. It's very different, how i can speak while every righty person thinks it's not a good time. I hope in this blog I can arrange and make some important things to communicate for lefty people.

The characters in a story

One thing but so important to write a novel is the characters. The protagonists (good people) and antagonists (bad people), then find the setting of your story, it can be in the present, future or in the past, or mix. Next, the location.

Being a diplomat's son

Sudin came home in sadness. It made his father sad. He asked his son,"What is happening to you, my boy?"

Sudin answered,"How happy Guntur is!" 

Ahmad, Sudin's father was surprised and asked him,"Why?"

Sudin said,"Guntur can speak English, French well but me not."

Ahmad  said,"You can too, my boy."

Sudin said,"No, never."

Ahmad  was confused and asked Sudin,"Why?"

Sudin answered,"Because Guntur's father is a diplomat and my dad is not. So he can go abroad and speak English and French."

Digging a new hole to hell

If you are frustrated of not getting the goal, don't try to follow the bad direction. If you think that as a beginner level student is not possible to get the target of TOEFL test, don't follow your friends' or seniors' direction to pay for the score. It means you will dig a new hole to hell. You have to realize that studying language is very important for your future not only for the requirement of your graduation time, but also for your application to your future. REMEMBER THAT, NEVER DIG A HOLE TO HELL!

Make a move

If you think that increasing scores in TOEIC, or TOEFL or IELTS is difficult, just try to run away from it. It doesn't mean that you will forget your problem then you will get the highest score. In this case, you forget your sadness of not getting the target and waking up from it and finding another solution.

Studying a foreign language is a process

If we don't use a second language beside our mother language every day, for someone who never has a good exposure in a foreign language, he or she will have a problem to improve his or her language. It needs a process, as long as the environment around his or her will support his or her effort.

how to write a novel for a beginner

For beginner novelists, if you want to make a novel, first time you should find the main idea of your novel and the supporting sentences of your main idea. If you have done it, you can arrange how many chapters that you want to write. Make every chapter has same pages at least.

A role of a language consultant is so important in our society.

A role of a language consultant is very important, it's not only to lead someone who is not expert in a special language but also to lead someone to communicate and do his/her activities every day.