Fudhail, An Extraordinary Boy from Eastern World.

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Too Young To Be A Band Leader

It is a story about my boy. Since he was seven years old, I asked for him to take a music course.

At that time he was so confused, what instrument he should choose. I  forced him to choose guitar. he just obeyed my request although he wanted to study keyboard. It was because we didn't have keyboard and still didn't think to buy so soon.  I knew it was so difficult for him.  In my opinion, studying guitar is important for a man. Every man should know about guitar.

You know what would happen if someone forced you to do something you didn’t want? Right, hewas so lazy to study guitar. He took a lesson on Monday. If Monday came, he would be so lazy and depressed. He pretended to sleep while the time came. But my husband  tried to support me. He accompanied my boy with her sister because her sister also studied vocal at the same place. 

When he was at Junior High School of 75, he saw that one of his friends, Bintang, was a good guitarist. He was also a good-looking boy, and clever. The music teacher always praised him as a good musician. From that time he realized that he could be a good guitarist, too. He started to be serious in practicing guitar again.

While he met his cousins, he asked them to practice together. Finally they made a simple band, called Molta. The group consisted of his cousins and him.I saw them so serious with their band. It made me think to find an event for them to show their band. 

 Finally I  offered them  to take a part at my medical students “Prompt Night” program. It was my plan. They  were so happy. They didn’t know how hard I had struggled to ask for their band's performance to the Chairman of the Committee at that program because only medical students of her university could take a part at that program. I just said to my boy to  manage his band to make a good performance. 

It was not easy to manage his cousins. They are older than my boy. They were university students and he was just a Junior High School student, but at this time my boy was the leader. He had to manage them to practice well and made a good performance. Sometimes he complained to me about his  cousins’ behavior. I just asked him to be patient to handle that. He just kept silent and raised hi spirit again by remembering what I said to him. I want him to study more how to handle people and manage a band. 

How To Combat children Abuse

There are so many children abuse around the world, not only in the USA. I want to tell about the children abuse in Indonesia. How the children abuse will affect the society here. You know one of the children abuse is physical action. I will focus on this problem.

In Indonesia, most of people are from middle until below levels family background. So many couples from uneducated get married without good preparation.  Sometimes they get married informally because they can’t pay for the ‘Penghulu’, a man who has a right to do the sacral promising wedding to the couple.  They even depend on their parents’ responsibility. The parents will support them to live with them.                        

Sometimes they just hang out for a short time then they decide to get married The couples get married because they don’t want to make a sin or in Islam’s way we call “zinah” or adultery. Most of them don’t know how to do after getting married, they just hold one intention “In love we can do all.”

You can imagine what will happen next while the couple has a baby. Unfortunately the wife can’t produce breast milk, so they need to buy milk. While the baby cries, then the wife asks the husband to buy milk then the husband doesn’t have enough money to buy  the  good milk for the baby. They are shy to ask for money from their parents  It will happen again and again.

Every time the baby cries, the couple will fight again and again. For the first time, the couple can be patient but one day, it will be the climax. If they are not so religious, they will be angry to the baby. It will cause a physical action. They will hit or beat  or perhaps kick them while they get emotion.

If every day we find a family who always hit or beat their children, it will affect our society. How about the children around the place? They will see a criminal action every day. They think it is a good think because the adult people do that.  Next time, the children will do physical action too. Every time they have   problem to another children, they will fight or kick their friends.                                                         

 Every day we see a criminal action around our environment. It will affect to our feeling. The other children around the family will be depressed and stressed.  As a good citizen we should think how to handle the children abuse. We have to remind our young generation to study how to love the children so the next children abuse will not happen again and we should open our eyes around us. If we find the case about children abuse, we should bring the actors to the jail or protect the children to get more torture from their parents.  We shouldn’t allow any crimes for children.

An Alternative Education for Extraordinary Children

 To be good parents are not easy right now. If we need our children’s future will be bright, we must be proactive parents. We must know what our children want. It is not easy to know what our children need, that's why we should have a brainstorming method to find their talents. We must search what’s on our children’s mind. What they want and  their goals.  We should be closer  to our children and always discuss with them every time.  So what should we do? Is it too difficult and so complex?

I think it is not so complex and difficult if we do that way with full of love. Here some steps that you can follow if you want your children to be extraordinary children who will get bright future. First step, ask your children what they need. Second, prepare your money. Third, find the information that refers to your money. Fourth, find a near location to the extracurricular place that your children like. Fifth, bring your children there. Sixth, try to be nice to the people on that place, example the coaches. We should appreciate their effort to make our children the best. Believe in them to make your children best.  

Seventh, make an agreement between husband and wife who will take care of your children to go to that place. If you find everything is on the control, make a commitment with your children to be serious with that activity.

Then, you still have to handle another problem if you have succeeded to make your children the extraordinary children with many outstanding achievements. You never think that your children will be busy with their extracurricular activities because they can manage their extracurricular activities outside of their school time. But what will happen next while their activities need time to be done and use our school time? Do you want to stop their activities and ask for them to concentrate on their study? What do you think if their activities have made them good or famous people and earn much money for them?

We are not wise parents  if we  ask for them to stop their activities. They have struggled for those to get the best achievements . We as parents should be wise in this case. We should find another solution.  We should support their achievements and also their effort to continue their formal education.  But how could handle the problem because their activities are overloaded so they can’t attend their class?

For parents who have extraordinary children, you should think about homeschooling for your children. We can arrange the time for our children to study while they don’t have any schedules to do their activities. It is good to make your children so safe with their future. So they never worry to be one step back than their friends because they still can study formal education. You should emphasize that formal education is still useful although you have bright future with your career now. Now we really think that homeschooling is useful for us who want to be extraordinary parents.