There are so many children abuse around the world, not only in the USA. I want to tell about the children abuse in Indonesia. How the children abuse will affect the society here. You know one of the children abuse is physical action. I will focus on this problem.
In Indonesia, most of people are from middle until below levels family background. So many couples from uneducated get married without good preparation. Sometimes they get married informally because they can’t pay for the ‘Penghulu’, a man who has a right to do the sacral promising wedding to the couple. They even depend on their parents’ responsibility. The parents will support them to live with them.
Sometimes they just hang out for a short time then they decide to get married The couples get married because they don’t want to make a sin or in Islam’s way we call “zinah” or adultery. Most of them don’t know how to do after getting married, they just hold one intention “In love we can do all.”
You can imagine what will happen next while the couple has a baby. Unfortunately the wife can’t produce breast milk, so they need to buy milk. While the baby cries, then the wife asks the husband to buy milk then the husband doesn’t have enough money to buy the good milk for the baby. They are shy to ask for money from their parents It will happen again and again.
Every time the baby cries, the couple will fight again and again. For the first time, the couple can be patient but one day, it will be the climax. If they are not so religious, they will be angry to the baby. It will cause a physical action. They will hit or beat or perhaps kick them while they get emotion.
If every day we find a family who always hit or beat their children, it will affect our society. How about the children around the place? They will see a criminal action every day. They think it is a good think because the adult people do that. Next time, the children will do physical action too. Every time they have problem to another children, they will fight or kick their friends.
Every day we see a criminal action around our environment. It will affect to our feeling. The other children around the family will be depressed and stressed. As a good citizen we should think how to handle the children abuse. We have to remind our young generation to study how to love the children so the next children abuse will not happen again and we should open our eyes around us. If we find the case about children abuse, we should bring the actors to the jail or protect the children to get more torture from their parents. We shouldn’t allow any crimes for children.
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